It amazes me how I'm starting to hate someone who I loved so much some years ago... Hate a strong word and a feeling that I seldom feel for anybody...this makes me feel evil...
haha sorry, that was my assumption. and in that case, i was in exactly the same place as you are in. when she left me, i was bitter. i hated her for a year, and didn't want to talk to her (even online) for many months after the hatred died down.
but later, i realized what our mistakes were, and i also realized that there are actually better people out there, and that our relationship had a shaky foundation to begin with.
it will take you a while, but you will eventually get over your hatred and be prepared for something more awesome, something you truly deserve.
as they say, don't cry cos it's over, smile cos it happened. it took me a couple of years, but i can smile now :)
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it's a passing phase. someday you will realize that in leaving him, you have accepted your mistake and learned not to make it again :)
@ kristopher
Well...I don't know which part of the post made u say that I was the one who left..
passing phase..maybe cuz now I feel nothing... :)
haha sorry, that was my assumption. and in that case, i was in exactly the same place as you are in. when she left me, i was bitter. i hated her for a year, and didn't want to talk to her (even online) for many months after the hatred died down.
but later, i realized what our mistakes were, and i also realized that there are actually better people out there, and that our relationship had a shaky foundation to begin with.
it will take you a while, but you will eventually get over your hatred and be prepared for something more awesome, something you truly deserve.
as they say, don't cry cos it's over, smile cos it happened. it took me a couple of years, but i can smile now :)
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